Do you and your partner want to spice up your bedroom game and add an extra dimension of fun and excitement to your sex life? Role play is one of the sexiest and most exhilarating ways to bring both of your desires to life. With role play, you can inhabit a new character who is fantasy-infused, allowing you to have wilder, more intense sex than ever before.

Here are some sexy role playing ideas and tips to get you and your partner started exploring what a wilder side of sexual pleasure can look like.

Why Role Play?
Role play is an incredibly fun and exciting way for couples to explore each other and sexually express themselves in ways that are outside the usual. It can be a great way to reinvigorate your relationship as it helps to introduce novelty, new ideas, and become more connected and intimate with each other.

Role play can also help you and your partner to learn more about each other’s fantasies and desires. Most of us won’t feel comfortable just sharing these kinds of thoughts, so role play can provide a visual representation of what excites you and helps you and your partner understand each other better.

How Do You Start Role Playing?
The first step to role play is to create your own scenario. Start with the basics of who, what, and where. Who are you and your partner role playing? What kind of scene are you setting up? Where are you playing out the fantasy? Decide on a character for you and your partner, or create one for each other.

When it comes to getting into character, do whatever you need to. Put on special outfits, use distinct body language, or even act out a certain persona. Talk to each other about what each of you wants to do and establish roles for each other to play.

Role Play Ideas to Spice Up Your Sex Life
Here are some erotic role play ideas to get you and your partner started:

  1. Doctor and Patient
    Grab some medical supplies and a white lab coat and you’ll be all set to play out this role play. One partner is the doctor while the other is the patient. The doctor can start off with a “check up” and then progress to more intimate positions.

  2. Teacher and Student
    Dress up in school uniforms and role play as a teacher and student. The teacher can set different tasks or exams for the student and reward them with sexual rewards.

  3. Porn Star and Fan
    A great way to give you and your partner the experience of being in a porno. Make believe you are a famous porn star and your partner, the fan. Put on different sexy lingerie or costumes and get into character as you act out a steamy sexual fantasy.

  4. Maid and Master
    Put on a sexy French maid’s uniform and roleplay being a French maid, who is there to serve and please her master. You can create several scenarios and roles, varying from doing the household chores to pleasing your master.

  5. Chef and Diner
    Time to whip up some sexual fantasies in the kitchen. Both of you play the roles of chef and diner. The chef can prepare some food for the diner, who can then respond to the culinary offerings with sexual favors.

  6. Cop and Suspect
    Don an authority figure’s uniform and take on the role of a cop and a suspect. The suspect has committed a crime and the cop needs to investigate. Play out different scenarios and use handcuffs, blindfolds, and other props to spice it up.

  7. Hotel Clerk and Guest
    Play out the tale of a hotel clerk and guest. The guest can offer various kinds of services in exchange for room accommodations. Set up some rules and scenarios to make it more exciting.

  8. Boss and Secretary
    Play the roles of a boss and secretary. Start with a boss-secretary situation and heat it up as the roleplay progresses. The boss can set different tasks for the secretary and reward them for their efforts.

  9. Stranger and Hitchhiker
    Role play as a stranger and a hitchhiker. The hitchhiker can try to get a ride from the stranger, who can then offer something other than a free ride. Set up an intense and steamy love affair story and make use of props such as handcuffs.

  10. Fan and Celebrity
    This role play can be a lot of fun as you both take on the roles of a fan and a celebrity. There are many ways to play out this role play and it can be a great way to explore each other’s fantasies.

Tips for Sexually Exploring Role Play

  1. Make sure that you and your partner are both comfortable with the roles and roles you both have chosen.

  2. Be open and honest about what you both enjoy and what you don’t.

  3. Talk to each other throughout the role play in order to keep the lines of communication open.

  4. Experiment with different scenarios to keep it interesting.

  5. Use props and costumes to make it more realistic and fun.

  6. Set ground rules beforehand to ensure that you and your partner are both safe and comfortable.

  7. Take your time and don’t pressure yourself. Start out slow and work your way up to more intense role playing.

Role play is an incredibly fun and exciting way to explore new levels of pleasure and deepen the connection between you and your partner. Think of it as a way to take off the typical masks you two wear during sex and leave them behind as you explore different personas and characters.

Create an exciting story and set the scene for your role play. With the right attitude and considerations, you can explore the boundaries of your sexuality with role play and create a memorable sexual experience for both of you.
All that’s left for you to do is to enjoy it.